Hindsight is 2020
As I sit here, with a pulled hamstring and stuck on the couch, I am listening to Steve teach Grace to make Grappe Gumbo which is our new New Year’s Eve tradition.
Our first NYE as a family was in 2017. It’s when Steve proposed to me and to Grace. We watched “When Harry Met Sally” which we’ve done every year since and will soon do tonight. We will toast the new year, have some brief reflections, talk a little about our dreams for next year and fall asleep with full bellies and full hearts.
As is typical on New Year’s Eve, we have done some reflecting on the past 12 months. This year, more than any other, has been a significant year in our lives...certainly unforgettable.
It has been full of giant ebbs and flows. We did an exercise where we talked about each month of the year (see below) and after writing it all down, it’s no wonder that we are exhausted and exhilarated.
This year, we became farmers. We forged partnerships that literally changed the trajectory of our lives. We made friendships that we hope will last a lifetime. We lived in quarantine yet have been more connected with the world than we’ve ever been. We realized the beauty of technology. We understood the value of our healthcare workers, our restaurant owners and employees, our grocery story staff, truck drivers, our meat processors and our educators. We watched the news. We learned. We cried with other Americans at the loss of icons like Kenny Rogers and RBG.we didn’t get to hug our families but we found new ways to stay connected. We honored our country and our neighbors. We wore our masks and washed our hands. We bought toilet paper and we used it. We raised a whole bunch of animals and fed lots of families healthy proteins. We put thousands of miles on our car delivering our goods. We made connections and new friends. We reconnected with old friends and enjoyed the journey. We spent countless hours working together, the three of us. We established beautiful routines of eating together and finding good shows and movies. We entertained ourselves in creative ways and hopefully entertained others with our antics on the farm. It’s was a horrific and a beautiful year. We prayed; we cried; we fought; we laughed and we found joy in the mundane. I’m thankful for our health and the health of those we love. I’m full of hope for 2021....not because I am under some false pretense that a light switch will be flipped tomorrow and it will be sunshine and roses. But because I believe that we are better because of 2020. And because despite it all, there is sunshine and roses. We are stronger. We appreciate things we once took for granted. We love more deeply because we understand even better what’s really important and we appreciate every day, every moment, every new birth on the farm and every sunset after a hard day’s work. We appreciate our supporters and our customers who spent their hard earned money with us. May we never forget the lessons and the joys that this year brought us and may 2021 bring more peace and joy than ever before. God bless you. Here’s to 2021. Eat your pork, peas and grapes and for goodness sake, spread some joy. Peace out 2020.
Forevermost Farms 2020 Year in Review
January
Steve’s recovery from back surgery 12/2
Decided to raise chickens
Farm Work Day
First visit from Grass Roots Co-op
February
Built 600 sq ft brooder
Ordered chickens
Set processing dates
Ordered turkeys, guineas and ducks
Received Cayuga ducks
Contracted with Grass Roots Co-op
March
Bought grain bin
Bought our first tractor
Got Colt
Graces first and only softball game
Grace turned 16
Got first batch of chickens
First cases of Corona Virus
Lock-down began 3/14
Started video series: Lessons from the Farm
Set up Barn2Door store
Had 11 baby bunnies
Celebrated mom and dads 50th wedding anniversary
April
Flood in the brooder (lost 40 chickens)
Launched online store and delivery service
Did first chicken catch and sent to processor
Wisteria and lilacs bloomed
Family Easter via zoom
Got our first rose bloom
Ducks graduated to the pond
May
Received new specialty breeding stock
Bought first commercial freezers
Celebrated our 2nd anniversary
Received our first batch of chicken from processor.
Did our first chicken delivery route
Four guineas hatched from rescued eggs under a broody chicken
Received our lavender guineas
Received second batch of chickens
June
Daylilies bloomed
Berkshire hogs came to the farm
Hydrangeas bloomed
Made offer on 9 acres
Guineas moved to outside coop
Received third batch of chickens
July
Hibiscus bloomed
Ate 2 bushels of peaches and 50 lbs of tomatoes
First Sunflowers bloomed
First Angel Trumpet bloomed
Grace got her new car
Received 100 turkeys
2nd chicken catch and harvest
3rd batch of chickens received
August
Closed on 9 additional acres to raise pigs
Turkeys moved into turkey garden
Swine training at Heifer Ranch
Sweet autumn clematis bloomed
Finished construction on blue pen
Video shoot with Heifer USA at the farm
Hurricane aftermath damaged chicken schooner
3rd chicken catch and harvest
Grace started virtual school
September
Grace and Steve got new compound bows
Kelly turned 49
Final chicken catch and processing
October
Steve turned 50
Went to see David Adam Byrnes
Took Hogs to processor
Took turkeys to processor
Freezer truck incident and Little Rock harvest pick up
November
First farm pick up day
Quarantined Thanksgiving
Busy Delivery season
New herd of Berkshire hogs came to the farm
Partnered with St Joseph’s Farm to offer our products
Sold out of turkeys
December
Built two new hog huts
New herd of sausage hogs arrived at the farm
Dolly had seven puppies
Cut down Angel trumpets and put in to root
First winter freeze
Partnered with Providence Farms and sold our first beef